| 1 | Approve the no-expectation purpose, eligible cohort, contact and exclusion rules, event conditions, host boundaries and follow-up menu. | Event lead and club board sponsor | Ten weeks before the event | A governed alumni social brief |
| 2 | Ask a small authorised former-member advisory group what would make the gathering comfortable, useful and free from membership pressure, and adjust the design. | Former-member liaison | Eight weeks before the event | Participant-shaped event choices |
| 3 | Confirm venue, cost, timing, food, alcohol, transport, access, support-person, online, photography and incident arrangements and publish accurate information. | Venue, access and safety contacts | Six weeks before the event | An inclusive event plan |
| 4 | Send one authorised invitation with clear no-expectation wording, private access and dietary routes and no-contact and decline choices, then close non-responses. | Authorised invitation contact | Four weeks before the event | A respectful invitation and response list |
| 5 | Host a warm arrival, optional introductions, brief factual club update and unhurried conversation, keeping membership, departure and story discussions private and participant-led. | Lead host and trained welcome team | Event night | A comfortable alumni gathering |
| 6 | Deliver only chosen follow-ups, correct or remove any event material, delete temporary attendee data and review access, pressure, complaints and response capacity. | Former-member liaison and board sponsor | Within four weeks | A completed event and contact closeout |